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All Rights Reserved. 2010-9-8 19:38:47 老师-王国平 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10300 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 110.45pt; mso-char-indent-count: 5.0"><FONT color=#ff3333><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">老</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">师</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></FONT></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">时光飞逝，转眼又到教师节。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">回想过去，几经风雨，几度寒暑，老师呵护我们成长获取知识的滋养，穿过人生的迷茫，当我们走进知识的殿堂，蓦然回首，可见烛光中笑容可掬的老师。老师</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，人们都说你是蜡炬春蚕，可蜡炬的泪折射不出你的无怨无悔，春蚕的银丝缠绕不出你的鞠躬尽瘁；人们都说你是园丁，身边簇拥着稚嫩的蓓蕾，可谁又知道你在百花盛放时悄悄地憔悴；年复一年，学生感悟了你的智慧，留给你孤独的依偎，然而学生们明天的蓝图是你饱蘸心血的描绘。现在长大后我也成了你</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">----</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人民教师。老师</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，你笑容背后的沧桑，在我心中永远是最美的，永不退色！</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 14:56:49 主题：基于生命观的青春期性健康教育-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10299 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主题：基于生命观的青春期性健康教育</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主讲人：韩似萍</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">时间：<FONT face="Times New Roman">2010</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>月</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">28</FONT><FONT face=宋体>日星期六</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 134.4pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">有序的人生</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 264px; WIDTH: 37px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 73px"><IMG height=73 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-2530.png" width=37></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; 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Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 96px; WIDTH: 50px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 44px"><IMG height=44 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-25316.png" width=50></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 156px; WIDTH: 110px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-17442.png" width=110></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">问题<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT><FONT face=宋体>：</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">现在中学生的亲子关系很紧张，为什么呢？是不是感情破坏呢？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">原因：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">更年期的人，活力在远离她，身体也会出现一些症状，会出现一种恐惧：似乎被社会所抛弃，被家人所遗忘。于是女性在更年期时时抓住当前的感觉。而在青春期的孩子来说，只怕得不到，这些孩子的特征是：觉得自己慢慢走向成年，力大无比，觉得自己越来越强。主观上希望获得和成年人一样的东西；而更年期的人处在慢慢失去的阶段。两者就形成了冲突。孩子想要摆脱，父母不想要被摆脱。这个阶段在生理学上叫做</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“第二心理断乳期”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">问题<FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：当一个女孩子<FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT><FONT face=宋体>周岁时，性成熟了。男孩子</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">13</FONT><FONT face=宋体>周岁性成熟，出现遗精。但只有到了婚姻阶段，才有实现能力。所以期间的这个阶段，叫做性等待期。那么这个阶段该怎么过？</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">解决方法：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">首先，认为出现是合理的；其次，让人知道，出现这种情况要怎么去处理他；第三，这个过程就是将动物性降低（动物可以当街交配），将社会性提高的过程。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">过去有个叫做“螺丝钉精神”，党把你安排在哪里，你就要在哪里，人体现的是工具性，为社会服务。之后发生了转变，<FONT face="Times New Roman">80</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年代提出“人本主义”，使人发展到最好的状态。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">教育不是把人修理成工具，而是成为主动性的人，将过去的“棋子”转变为“棋手”。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 12px; WIDTH: 98px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 98px"><IMG height=98 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-22726.png" width=98></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 72px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 120px; WIDTH: 362px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-27057.png" width=362></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 120px; WIDTH: 362px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 54px"><IMG height=54 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-8855.png" width=362></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN><IMG height=361 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-27745.png" width=481></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,0,0); COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,0,0)">成年人的任何问题都可以在他的早期发展中找到根因。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">绿色箭头线是老师看到的角色；淡蓝色虚线是孩子对自己的身份认定；于是两者出现沟通不畅的现象。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这幅图就是自我意识觉醒和性意识觉醒冲突的表现。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">性意识觉醒的表现：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、两性分界（例&nbsp;男女三八线），但存在探究异性的需求</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">初中时，出现小狗式的爱，没有情感，存在探索的需求。如今天互换东西表示对异性的需求；第二天又出现别的表现。这不存在情感。应该说，初一初二的恋情很多是成年人交给他的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">指导意见：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">认同青春期男女的异性需求，既要满足需求，但要让他们懂得界限</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">两性接近期&nbsp;&nbsp;两性眷恋期（眷恋异性身上的某些特质）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 0px; WIDTH: 86px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 85px"><IMG height=85 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-19268.png" width=86></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第一性征：男女两性在染色体、细胞、性腺以及附属生殖器官等方面</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 157.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的特征</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;第二性征：男女体貌上的差异</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 157.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -157.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;第三性征：男女在感情上、气质、性格、志趣、社会行为等方面具有不同的特征</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;第四性征：男女两性在性行为上的特征</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;项目&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;男性&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;女性</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">性发育重要标志&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;遗精&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;月经</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">体格形态&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;高大壮实&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;四肢较男性短，体态日趋丰满</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">胸部&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;平时，有些男性长胸毛&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;乳房隆起，丰满而有弹性</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">喉部与嗓音&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;喉结突出，嗓音粗沉&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;喉结不明显，嗓音尖细</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: -62px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 252px; WIDTH: 290px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 272px"><IMG height=272 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-27851.png" width=290></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 41px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 60px; WIDTH: 86px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 85px"><IMG height=85 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-13524.png" width=86></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 31px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 48px; WIDTH: 110px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 106px"><IMG height=106 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-24905.png" width=110></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 20px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 36px; WIDTH: 134px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 137px"><IMG height=137 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-28393.png" width=134></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 23px; WIDTH: 158px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 158px"><IMG height=158 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-27389.png" width=158></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 12px; WIDTH: 182px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 178px"><IMG height=178 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-11800.png" width=182></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">青春期的心理需要：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 228px; WIDTH: 242px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-3129.png" width=242></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">找出自己怎样去适合这个世界</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">接受自己身体生理上的变化</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">探索人生应该怎么过</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 10px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 228px; WIDTH: 242px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-21295.png" width=242></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">界定自己相对于同性的身份</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">界定自己相对于异性的身份</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 29.25pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6、&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">界定自己相对于同伴的身份</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:54:44 辅导关系的建立-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10298 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主题：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">辅导关系的建立</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主讲人：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">孙有福（市教师教育院）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">时间：<FONT face="Times New Roman">2010</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>月</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">28</FONT><FONT face=宋体>日星期六</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导的过程在某种意义上就是双方建立一定的人际关系的过程。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（向左走向右走）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一定要向右走：温暖、向上的方向</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">良好的辅导关系不仅是实施辅导的基础和条件，而且其本身就具有某种辅导的功效。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">马可连柯：只有让对方感受到你的尊重，你才可以向对方提出要求。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 28px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 88px; WIDTH: 2px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 126px"><IMG height=126 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-2334.png" width=2></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 39px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: -19px; WIDTH: 277px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 2px"><IMG height=2 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-30551.png" width=277></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(255,0,0)">经师易得&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;人师难求</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">失败教师&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;成功教师</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无同情心&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;热情真诚地接纳</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不予接纳&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;交友</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">责备、训斥&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;共情</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 28px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: -19px; WIDTH: 277px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 2px"><IMG height=2 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-11226.png" width=277></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">惩罚&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;倾听、鼓励</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">许多用心良苦的教育之所以未能成功是因为在这些教育过程中，从未建立起一种令人满意的师生关系。——<FONT face="Times New Roman">ROGERS</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">辅导关系的基本特征：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、客观性（教师的立场要中立）&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、保密性&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、深层性&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、限制性</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【例子&nbsp;笑话】</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一个国家决定派宇航员去火星考察，但是害怕出意外，所以先派出一只猴子上去。猴子回来了，做了三个动作：第一是捶自己的胸部，第二十前进的动作，第三是把眼睛蒙住。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">科学家翻译了好久解释为：太早了，飞得太快，什么也没有看清楚。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不同学者对良好辅导关系要素的看法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <TABLE style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; 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PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">真诚</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">正确的同感</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无条件的完全接纳</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">了解</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">发展的方法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">直觉的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.6pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 42.65pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=top width=56> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">影响良好关系的要素</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">聪以上两发表看出，同感、真诚与尊重受到大多数流派和学者的高度重视。尤其是同感，被认为是最关键的基本要素。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,255,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,255,0)">一、同感</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">同感（&nbsp;<FONT face="Times New Roman">empathy</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）又译作&nbsp;移情、共情、神入、同理心等</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">共情是能体验他人的精神世界，就好像那是自己的精神世界一样的一种能力（<FONT face="Times New Roman">ROGERS</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">共情就是用别人的眼睛看世界，简而言之，是指设身处地的意思。（<FONT face="Times New Roman">MAJIANQING</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">设身处地，像体验自己精神那样体验他人精神世界的态度和能力。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">其核心是理解。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【小故事】</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">有个小男孩放学后，问她的妈妈：“妈妈，我到底是从哪里来的？”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">妈妈觉得这个问题不好回答，但应该趁此机会教育小孩，就一本正经地以猫狗为例子，叹了生殖过程。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">儿子听完后，一头雾水的说：“怎么会这样？我的同桌说它是从山西来的。”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">用心良苦的教育之所以没有效果，是因为你说的和孩子想的是不一样的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">二、同感的内容及层次</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">戈德斯认为同感应该包括情绪的同感和角色承担的同感</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">伊根将同感的内容分为经验、感受和行为。并分为初级同感和高级同感两个层次。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">卡科夫将同感的层次水平分为<FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT><FONT face=宋体>类</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">从感受、程度和内容方面给予全面的接纳和反馈</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">辅导要注意空杯心态</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【假设】</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">生：这所学校真的不如我以前念的那所学校，那里的同学对我很和善。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">我：哦，听你这么说，我对你以前的同学很感兴趣呢。你能不能介绍介绍你原来的好朋友阿？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（这样讲不是很好，因为这样也不是保持中立状态）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">最好这样说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：好像很怀念以前的学习吧。这里的人际关系感觉不是很友好阿。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（对孩子话语的分析：怀念情结很重，很怀念以前的学校，怀念以前对她好的同学和老师；也有可能是想重点说，在这个学校感觉很不好）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【假设<FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT><FONT face=宋体>】</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">生：学说对班主任说：“我最讨厌上数学课了，因为数学老师对我们老师大声吼叫。”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">我：哦，数学老师大声吼叫，你不喜欢上数学课阿。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（孩子没说完，我们不要打断）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">最好这样说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：哦，数学老师上课的时候大吼大叫，你很厌恶，你讨厌上数学课阿！</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【假设<FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>】</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一位来访者想你做了这样的叙述：爸爸出了车祸以后，我觉得天都塌下来了。这世界为什么这么不公平，单单让我家碰上了这样的事情？现在剩下我和妈妈二个人，她又没有什么文化，我不知道今后的生活会变成什么样子，我真的一点点信心都没有了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">最好这样说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：哦，你爸爸除了车祸，只剩下你和妈妈两个人，你妈妈也没有文化，你不知道今后的生活会怎么样，一点信心也没有了，你觉得天都要塌下来了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【假设<FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT><FONT face=宋体>】</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">来访者：我告诉你，我恨我的父亲。我恨他，没有什么理由，我就是恨他。他是好人一个，有正义感，他从来没有打过我，但是我就是恨他。不过很父亲是件不孝的事情，特别是当没有理由恨他的时候，这是我感到烦恼、不安、担忧。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">最好这样说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：恩，你恨你的父亲，就是没有理由的恨他。你也觉得他是好人一个，但你就是恨他。你也觉得恨父亲是不孝的事情，这是一对矛盾，这使你感到焦虑、不安和担忧。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（把孩子的说的事情放在前面，把情感放在后面）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(255,0,0); COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(255,0,0)">一本书《追风筝的人》</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,255,0); COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,255,0)">高级同感的特点：事情要说出来，感受要有同感说出来，程度也要形容上来</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">同感传递的辅助技术</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1<FONT face=宋体>、言语鼓励</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;求助者：“我不喜欢学校。”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;辅导者：“哦！”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 63pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;求助者会继续说的：“食堂又乱又脏，伙食很糟糕阿”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 63pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;辅导者：“是这样阿。”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2<FONT face=宋体>、重复关键词</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;求助者：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3<FONT face=宋体>、重复句子</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4<FONT face=宋体>、概括性的重复</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5<FONT face=宋体>、非言语传递</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;目光注视、点头示意、面部表情、身体姿势、语音语调、相隔距离等的运用</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,255,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,255,0)">二、真诚</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">真诚是指辅导者应该坦诚面对当事人，开诚布公的、直截了当地与求助者交流自己的态度和意见。真诚的核心是表里如一，在辅导实践中，真诚要求辅导者坦诚地接受自己的一切感受，敏于感受自己的内心体验、思想和态度，并将其自然的、适时适度的传递给当事人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">真诚产生的关键是辅导者具备的自信与自我接纳的态度。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">罗杰斯的例子：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">上课的时候发现学生不认真听课已经影响到你的心情。那么你就可以这样做来表示真诚：把课停下来说，“刚才后面的几个同学一直在讲话，我感到很生气，已经影响到我的心情了。”再等一分钟，再继续上课。这就是真诚。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">你越是忍住生气，继续上课，那就是不真诚。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">真诚传递的技术：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、自我表露技术</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：辅导者自愿、有时候也可以适度地将自己的真实感受、经历、观念等拿来与求助者</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">直接、简要</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">地分享。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">言行协调技术</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：辅导者调动与运用非言语技术来传递真诚，并使</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">言语传递和非言语传递相互配合、协调一致</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,255,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,255,0)">三、尊重</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">尊重意味着辅导者对求助者整个人的接纳和认同，也承认和相信求助者的价值和潜能，相信求助者有改变和成长的动力。核心是平等。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【案例】</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">星期二的音乐课，一个学生故意把粉笔灰尘搬到音乐老师的电子琴上，当音乐老师发脾气叫着，谁搬的就把它抹掉。全班却没有一个人承认。致使这节课变成了自习课。星期五的一节自习课上。老师问：是谁干的，站起来。连呼三遍，终于有一个学生站了起来，我当场宣布它有两个选择。一是向音乐老师道歉，二是扫一个星期的教室。本来以为他会选择一，但没想到他却很快选择了二、你我不知道这样处理对不对？是否还有更好的处理办法呢？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">作法：这个孩子敢于承认错误，首先是要进行肯定的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">取法其上得其中</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">取法其中得其下</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">尊重的传递技术：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1<FONT face=宋体>、关注</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、倾听</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、接纳：肯定性的言语反应（最起码是中立，不反对）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、信任与鼓励</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:53:45 心理咨询的理论流派（二）-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10297 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主题：心理咨询的理论流派（二）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主讲人：温州大学&nbsp;毛华配&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT face="Times New Roman">13957730776</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">时间：<FONT face="Times New Roman">2010</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>月</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">27</FONT><FONT face=宋体>日星期五</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><!--EndFragment--></SPAN> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"></SPAN>&nbsp;</P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如参谋——后现代心理学派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">中小学生常见心理问题和对策</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">每个问题的呈现，要分析原因？有哪些治疗的方法？需要注意什么事项？有什么体会？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">成因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、心理特点&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、生理特点&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、家庭因素&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、社会因素&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、学校因素</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">拿到一个个案，要了解这个个案所处的年龄段有什么特点？有什么心理防御机制？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例如：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一个内向的人和一个外向的人，问题形成的成因都是不一样？长期形成的心理防御机制是怎么样的？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例如</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">说：一个中学生，碰到一个问题：喜欢打抱不平，思想非常正直。在大街上看到别人扔垃圾，他会上前劝告，说这是不文明行为。他妈妈对她很好，一边教育他正值，不要拍马屁，但他妈妈自己在社会上工作会给领导送礼等等。于是他就觉得很冲突。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">毛老师问：你有什么问题？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;你对妈妈有什么意见？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">应该说，社会因素已经辐射到人的整个观念上。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">常见心理问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：学习问题&nbsp;&nbsp;人际交往&nbsp;&nbsp;性心理&nbsp;&nbsp;情绪问题&nbsp;&nbsp;人格问题&nbsp;&nbsp;行为问题&nbsp;&nbsp;其它问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、学习问题</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A<FONT face=宋体>学习障碍：</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">个体在听、说、读、写、推理与运算当方面的获取和运用上表现出显著困难的一群不同性质的学习异常者的统称。异常现象是个人内在的，一般指中枢神经系统功能失常。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">诊断标准：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学习成绩较应有水平相差一年以上（或者低于标准测试平均分<FONT face="Times New Roman">20</FONT><FONT face=宋体>分以上）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无外周性感知觉或运动方面缺陷（如近视等）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无精神疾病</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">智商高于<FONT face="Times New Roman">70</FONT><FONT face=宋体>分</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">与其他儿童有同等学习机会</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">中学生有一部分是短期发作，特点就比较完全体现；一部分中学生发生或者产生，是牵引时间比较长，如有一个案例，甚至有些从<FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>周岁开始出现幻听等现象。小学高年级时出现评价性幻听和争论性幻想；初中的时候出现有人针对性评价，甚至出现幻想；高中的时候觉得很多人在他背后指指点点。症状非常严重了。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">治疗对策：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">医学模式</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理加工过程模式（视动统合训练）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学业技能模式（指导与强化）&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;美国就特别重视此项内容</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">信息加工模式（认知策略或学习策略）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(255,0,0); COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(255,0,0)">对这些学生，看到不好的情况，不要指责他；但看到好的地方，一定要记得表扬他。对差生来说，不退就是一种进步；小进步，就是大成功。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">B<FONT face=宋体>、考试焦虑</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：在一定应试情况下，一旦有为基本特征。以防御或逃避为行为方式，以一定的情绪反应所表示出来的心理状态。这其实是一种本能，每个人都如此。但是如果升到一定高度，那就不好了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">考试的焦虑实际上是遇到危险而恐惧的行为形式</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如动物的焦虑行为，第一项肯定是逃跑（喘气、出汗、心跳加快），若反应不及，会出现第二种状态，木浆状态，意思就是不所为（发呆、大脑打结），僵硬；第三种状态就是假死（高考时一些孩子看到试卷发下来就会晕倒）；第四种状态，最后一种状态就是崩溃，吓死。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 42.735pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如果能将考试焦虑降低到一定水平，就可以提升学生的应试能力</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">治疗对策：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">降低期望</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">认真有序学习（要转移注意力）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">着眼当前已有计划</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">正确对待他人评价</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">建立自信（很多不自信的人的表现行为是拿自己的弱势去和别人的有点比较，于是不够自信；所以建立自信的方法就是要看到自己的优势）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">暗示与放松</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、人际交往</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">朋辈交往的重要性</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">交往障碍的原因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：生理、心理、社会</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">对策</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：&nbsp;&nbsp;关爱、社交培训、相关问题的解决、建立自信</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">表现出</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：非常的无助，需要特别多的关爱</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">要注意</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：要给予更多的关爱；这一类学生的人际交往能力是较差的，要予以宽容；针对他的心理、生理、社会中的某个原因，要给予问题的解决；一般人际交往有障碍的人往往很不自信，所以建立自信是解决问题的方法；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、青春期性心理</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;这是一个较为严重的问题，但很多表现出来的却是学习问题、人际问题、心理问题等等。手淫、遗精、月经、异性交往（迷恋）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 28.1pt; TEXT-INDENT: -28pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、情绪问题</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;A<FONT face=宋体>上学恐惧症</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（学校适应困难）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">表现现象</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：由于种种原因，个体拒绝上学，如果家长坚持让其上学，则表现出种种躯体障碍，并伴有强烈的焦虑、易于或者恐惧。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.58pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">原因分析</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">分离焦虑</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（如有严重的母婴依赖性）、</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">失去避难所</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（在家里是被宠着、惯着，离开家就会觉得生存环境变化，所以无法相容，无法胜任；但有的由于无法用言语来表达，所以用身体来表示，如躯体上的发烧、碰撞等等）；学习落后；创伤等</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.58pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">对策</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理支持</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（你觉得是什么原因让你有点恐惧感，一直希望转学呢？）&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">脱敏训练</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（如有一定的社交恐惧症，进行脱敏训练）&nbsp;&nbsp;适应训练&nbsp;&nbsp;承诺与条件</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5<FONT face=宋体>、抑郁症</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">特点</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">情绪非常低落、自我价值贬低、遇到事情无兴趣无乐趣</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（这三点如果维持一个礼拜以上，就可以断定抑郁情绪；如果伴随一个月以上，还伴有躯体上的失眠、头痛、胸闷、腹泻或便秘、全身肌肉酸痛，再考虑一下是否有自杀念头，就可以断定为严重的抑郁症状）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">应作这几项工作</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：建立心理档案，对相关的特定行为、心理状况的观测档案建立</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如果情况比较严重，就必须和上级，并注意保密</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;和家长做好沟通工作，并建议休学</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;要注意积极语言，杜绝消极语言</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;谨慎地用认知疗法，不可以用辩论，否则会激发他的不良情绪</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">原因：习得无助、消极归因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-LEFT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">对策：无条件关注、重建认知、培育资源</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6<FONT face=宋体>、人格问题</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">7<FONT face=宋体>、行为问题</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">多动症</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（注意力缺乏、冲动，约占<FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>％，一般</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">16</FONT><FONT face=宋体>周岁之后会缓解或自我痊愈）也叫做注意缺陷综合症、注意障碍症</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">表现</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：当事人的注意持久性比较差</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">成因</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：某种神经系统功能的轻微失调、遗传性、铅中毒、管教方式、噪杂环境等</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">对策</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：药物治疗、食物疗法、行为训练</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如何判断</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：看看注意缺陷是否普遍性，如学习、看电视、玩游戏等等事项</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">8<FONT face=宋体>、其他问题</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">品行问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（如攻击性、说谎、偷窃）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;网络成瘾</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">干预的建议</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：首先必须成为他认可的朋友；在沟通的初期不要说网络不好，或者不要说把网瘾戒了；第三，一定要对网络沉迷的游戏内容或方式比较了解，并且尝试着去体验；第四，建议父母亲和孩子一起玩游戏；第五，一定要在他身上发现比较成功的、比较闪光的优点，并且试图努力将它放大；第六，每一次咨询塞一点我们想要的干预对方的内容或者思想，如加入一点颈椎反映难受等内容。当受治者说有，就可以简单深入一下；如果说没有，就不要强迫性；也可以说皮肤问题等等，痘痘那么多，后来医生确认发现原因是跟电脑靠得太近，于是产生痘痘等内容）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">意志薄弱</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">耐挫能力差</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;特殊儿童教育</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;抽烟</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">几点体会</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;寻找家庭诱因与系统改进</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">科学赏识</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">合理强化</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">看到好的一面</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">积极暗示</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">重视朋辈的影响</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">重视咨访关系</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:52:29 心理咨询的理论流派（一）-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10296 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""><P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主题：心理咨询的理论流派（一）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主讲人：温州大学&nbsp;毛华配&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT face="Times New Roman">13957730776</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">时间：<FONT face="Times New Roman">2010</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>月</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">27</FONT><FONT face=宋体>日星期五</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一、精神分析学派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;1<FONT face=宋体>、心理分析学说</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;A&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>意识：个体能觉察到的心理活动，是现实的理性的能被社会接收的内容。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">B&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>前意识：出于意识和潜意识之间，起到稽查作用、抑制潜意识的冲动。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 28px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 160px; WIDTH: 86px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-1799.png" width=86></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 28px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 4px; WIDTH: 122px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 106px"><IMG height=106 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-4517.png" width=122></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 39px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 16px; WIDTH: 98px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 85px"><IMG height=85 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-30622.png" width=98></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">C<FONT face=宋体>潜意识：个体不能察觉到的心理活动，不与显示直接发生联系，其内容会在梦中和白日梦中出现。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 189pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 112px; WIDTH: 49px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 9px"><IMG height=9 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-22444.png" width=49></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">意识是现实的、显现的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 194.25pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 148px; WIDTH: 86px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-22339.png" width=86></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 18px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 112px; WIDTH: 37px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 9px"><IMG height=9 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-14374.png" width=37></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无意识确实向下、向内紧压，形成压抑、压抑不</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 194.25pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 18px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 88px; WIDTH: 49px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 32px"><IMG height=32 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-31161.png" width=49></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: -26px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 35px; WIDTH: 62px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 54px"><IMG height=54 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-16064.png" width=62></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">会消失，以梦、口误、笔误、记忆错误等方式出</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 194.25pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 136px; WIDTH: 86px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-28444.png" width=86></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">现</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、心理结构学说</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">A&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>本我（</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">id</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）：是建立人格的基础，是一种本能的冲动、遵守“快乐原则”，在人格的形成过程中提供心理能量。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">B&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>自我（</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">ego</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）是人格的执行部分，塔统辖着本我和超我，并且为了整个人格的利益和外部世界交往、遵行“现实原则”，区分幻想与现实。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">C&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>超我（</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">superego</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）是人格中体现道德准的部分，是儿童吸收了父母的是非观念和善恶标准二形成的遵循“至善原则”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“自我”&nbsp;伺候&nbsp;&nbsp;外部世界、本我、超我</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、抑制学说</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人的一生中，会有一些痛苦的经历和性创伤，常为文明社会所不容或者禁止，即使现在重新回忆起这段经历，也会激发强烈的情绪和体验。这些痛苦被一种强大的力量排除于意识之外，被压抑或到潜意识中，并产生矛盾和冲突，引起精神症状。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">二、方法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、自由联想法：这是弗氏在创立了精神细分析学理论体系后治疗心理障碍的独特方法。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">二、行为治疗学派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、人的行为包括变态行为，是广义学习的结果。引起不良行为直接原因是环境刺激、即刺激反应模式。</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">2</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、认为变态行为可通过再学习训练矫正，以适应不良行为治疗目标</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、研究方法比较可观，有实验证据，治疗方法，简便、易行、有效。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、渐进性肌肉松弛法&nbsp;&nbsp;先四肢后躯干，先下后上</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、腹式呼吸</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、注意集中训练：先易后难</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、行为放松训练</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;系统脱敏法的三个步骤&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT face="Times New Roman">281</FONT><FONT face=宋体>页</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">A&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>受治者运用一种上面描述的方式学习放松技术</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">B&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>治疗师和受治者以期建立一个恐惧刺激的等级</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">C&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>受治者在治疗师描绘那些恐惧层次的同时，练习放松技术</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5<FONT face=宋体>、满灌疗法</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：直接接触恐怖，坚持到紧张感消失的快速行为治疗。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">远离：恐怖是习得的，若患者被置于恐怖面前而发现没有危害发生时，恐怖情绪终将消失。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不适应身体不健康，如高血压、心脏病、老年人等症状。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">适应症：焦虑、强迫、恐怖（心脏患者忌）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 40px; WIDTH: 13px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 54px"><IMG height=54 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-18851.png" width=13></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;现实满灌法：现实情景</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;想象满灌法：设计情景</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如一个怕蛇的人：可以先放一条蛇放在瓶子里，共处一室；之后尝试放在地上，共处一室；之后再尝试狭小范围内共处；之后再尝试将蛇放到手上。通过这样的方式，使患者接触心理伤害。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个方法之后的放松非常重要，通过放松的音乐、轻柔的语言，再通过反复进行，得到效果。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6<FONT face=宋体>、厌恶疗法：</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">通过厌恶刺激，建立新的条件反射。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如戒酒：让患者在用餐时间，喝酒，那么就可以在酒里面投入泄痢停（两粒以上），喝一次之后就会呕吐，一次进行三次效果，就可以形成简单的负面体验；第二天照样如此；第三如此。之后要隔几天，因为身体会受不了。之后再接着进行，那么这个厌恶疗法就达到效果了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">9<FONT face=宋体>、思维阻断法：</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">理论：外在行为能通过抑制加以组织，则内隐的行为也能通过抑制来阻止直至消失。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">方法：&nbsp;&nbsp;放松——进入强迫观念——喝止（当头棒喝）：他人、自己</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如一个强迫症，看到字就会数笔画，那么方法是：人站在背后，准备一个脸盆或者锣鼓，能够发出巨响的材料。先让当事人进入冥想状态，我们就可以得到一个信号，当即用巨响停止；再进入第二轮的尝试和喝断。一般一个轮回三次就可以进行。之后就可以慢慢达到效果。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">三、人本主义理论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">以马斯洛和卡尔罗杰斯为代表，认为每个人都有向着健康的积极意志，向着成长的冲动或想着人的潜能自自我实现的冲动。强调人的成长和发展，而不是仅仅注意缺陷。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这是关注外在的行为，关注外部的训练，而比较少进行心理上的训练。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个方法很多时候是用在动物上进行研究，所以也叫做动物研究法。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">马斯洛认为</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：任何一个人他总是想通过自身的努力而达成自身实现，任何人都是有责任心的，都是向上积极的，都是想达到完美状态的。他认为世界上是没有病人的。那么有，是因为他的个人需求得不到满足，而个人能力又有限，于是深深陷入抑郁之中。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、治疗主要阶段</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">自我表达——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（自己面临的环境和面对的问题），关键点是不要追求细节，让他粗线条的说自己的问题（你今天过来，你希望在哪些领域进行探讨，哪些地方希望进行沟通？）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 28px; WIDTH: 13px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 54px"><IMG height=54 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-31084.png" width=13></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;当一个人反复描述一个现象的过程，是疏泄的过程</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 36.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">当一个人反复阐述现象的过程，是自我逐渐建立的过程</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 36.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">当当事人在反复阐述问题的过程，也是一个脱敏的过程</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">自我分离</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——让他在自我表达过程中分离出来，一个是理性，一个是感性。通过当事人与治疗师的对话。（我很感谢你对我的信任，你和我讲解了过去几年艰辛和曲折，你的内心感受非常痛苦。但是很显然，这几次描述中，我看到了你对问题有自己的看法。那么你是怎么看待这个问题的？）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">尽可能的让当事人想，如果你就是对方，你会怎么做？尽量进行互换思考。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">当问题表现出来了，人也已经分离出来了，这时要怎么办？他需要求助</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">求助</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——必须是当事人自身有强烈的求助需求</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;唤起责任</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——让当事人明确在求助过程中，明确自己应该承担怎么样的责任，必须唤起责任感，才能真正去解决问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">问题解决</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">接受自我</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——一个人如果不真正接纳自己，爱自己，就很难就去接纳别人。他可能觉得自己很没用，恨自己等等。所以这个过程最重要的是让当事人知道，任何人的今天都是自己造成的，不要一天到晚的埋怨自己。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">应该更多的想想：从今天开始，我要做什么？从今天开始，我能做什么？从今天开始，我要怎么做？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">经验适用</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">等——将前面的问题总结一下，让有用的知识和经验纳入到解决问题的知识库中去，为今后解决问题而准备着。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、治疗时应该注意的几个问题：</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;A&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>治疗过程——非知道，治疗师与当事人关系（共情、真诚、无条件的积极关注）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">B&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>语言和非语言技巧</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">C&nbsp;<FONT face=宋体>病人转变的必要和充分条件——心理沟通、平等和真诚、不协调、无条件积极关注或接受、移情的知觉</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">四、认知行为治疗&nbsp;&nbsp;认知疗法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;20<FONT face=宋体>世纪</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">70</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年代由美国心理学家贝克开创并发展起来的，指出人的情绪和行为反应不是有外界刺激直接引起的，而是人的认知过程所决定的。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">认知理论认为，一个人他为什么会得心理问题，主要是一个人的认知观念出了问题。一个人的思想出问题，那么行为会出问题，处理事情的能力会出问题。一个事件的发生，有了刺激，必然有反应。实际却发现，不同的人面对相同的事件，结果是不一样的。原因是当事人面对事件的看法不一样。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;心理障碍产生的是人的认知，而不是不良刺激造成的。认知是情绪和行为帆影的中介，每当人有一种想法并信以为真的似乎后，就会伴随出现相应的情绪和行为。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;心理障碍和负性认知（消极、悲观的态度）<FONT face="Times New Roman">/</FONT><FONT face=宋体>互相影响，互相加强，形成恶性循环，使症状得以延续。打破恶性循环成为治疗的关键。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">情绪障碍的患者中总能发现若于认知曲解，这些认知曲解正是患者痛苦的直接原因。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不合理信念的三个特征：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、绝对化要求</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（<FONT face="Times New Roman">demandingness</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）——从自己的意愿出发，认为某一事情必定发生或不会发生的信念。如必须、应该等……</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、过分概括化</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（<FONT face="Times New Roman">overgeneralization</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）——以偏概全，以一概十的不合理的思维方式。如&nbsp;一无是处、废物等……成语形容为：一叶障目，不见泰山</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、糟糕至极</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（<FONT face="Times New Roman">awfulizing</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）——认为如果一件不好的事情发生将是非常可怕的，非常糟糕的、甚至是一场灾难的想法。如糟透了、坏极了等……（表现为：一件事情发生，就认为接下来发生的事情就是灾难一样）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; 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Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 136px; WIDTH: 62px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 33px"><IMG height=33 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-333.png" width=62></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">ABC<FONT face=宋体>理论框架</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 28px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 292px; WIDTH: 37px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 32px"><IMG height=32 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-12040.png" width=37></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 18px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 172px; WIDTH: 37px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 32px"><IMG height=32 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-28575.png" width=37></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 49px; 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Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 256px; WIDTH: 38px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 85px"><IMG height=85 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-32654.png" width=38></SPAN><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 8px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 64px; WIDTH: 38px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 85px"><IMG height=85 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-18301.png" width=38></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">关键的治疗的一般方法：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不与不合理信念辩论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（非理性信念）——问题信念、质疑、夸张（采用辩论，很需要技巧，所以必须把不合理信念放大）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例子：你的朋友的妈妈你认为怎么样？&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;不好&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;那么你的朋友是不是要和你一样讨厌他的妈妈&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;那也不是&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;那么她是可以有她自己的想法的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">再如你后来找到了男朋友，你很喜欢，那么你的朋友是不是要和你一样喜欢他？&nbsp;&nbsp;那不是的&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;那么也就是说她也可以有她自己的看法的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;认知观点中，人的想法很容易改变。为了让这些观点比较稳固的建立，就可以布置家庭作业</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">合理情绪想象技术</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——进入情景、体验情绪反应、停止想象、改变观念‘</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(51,102,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">认知的家庭作业</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——自主量表（先找<FONT face="Times New Roman">A</FONT><FONT face=宋体>和</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">C</FONT><FONT face=宋体>，后找</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">B</FONT><FONT face=宋体>分析）。与不合理信念辩论，合理的自我分析（</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">ABCDE</FONT><FONT face=宋体>）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">观察自己的不合理的信念，什么时候会出现的？频率有几次？反应大不大？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">现将不良信念记录下来，学会自我辩论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">每次咨询之后，好好反省一下咨询师和他谈话的内容，有什么体会和领悟</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(255,0,0); COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(255,0,0)">总结：&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;不同流派下的不同角色</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 15px; Z-INDEX: 1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 280px; WIDTH: 286px; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 59px"><IMG height=59 src="file:///C:/DOCUME~1/ADMINI~1/LOCALS~1/Temp/ksohtml/wps_clip_image-1505.png" width=286></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如侦探——精神分析流派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如教练——行为主义流派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如朋友——人本主义流派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如律师——理性情绪流派</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><!--EndFragment--><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:51:31 心理辅导活动课实施要务3-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10295 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">C</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、团体工作阶段常用的设计形式</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、团体讨论（六六讨论法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">配对讨论法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">鱼缸讨论法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">代议法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">班级论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">坛</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">综合法）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、创意思考（脑力激荡法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">六</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">W</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">分合法）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、联想活动（自由联想</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">故事接龙</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">语句完成）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、辩论活动（舌战群雄式辩论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">分组对抗式辩论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">同题分组小辩论）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、机智问答；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、角色扮演（独角戏</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人生</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">AB</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">剧</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">多种角色扮演）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、身体活动（增进团体凝聚力的身体活动</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">促进人际沟通的身体活动）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、回馈活动（优点轰炸、信件会串）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;9</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、比拟活动（自我比拟</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">为团体命名</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">事件比拟）；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、纸笔练习（促进人际互动和家庭关系探索的纸笔练习</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">催化学生自我探索的纸笔练习</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">促进团体信任感、凝聚力和合作态度的纸笔练习</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">澄清价值观的纸笔练</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">习）。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">D</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、团体结束阶段常用的设计形式</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、团康类活动；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/public/投影片/活动课设计/请在我背上留言.doc"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">请在我背上留言</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、音乐类活动。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（四）认真理清辅导思路</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　班级心理辅导活动的现场是瞬息万变、很难预测的，因此教师在设计团体辅导时，应把主要精力放在理清辅导思路上，而不应拘泥于具体细节。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　如果在实施过程中感觉不够流畅、效果不佳，除了教师个体因素外，问题往往出在辅导理念和辅导思路的迷失上。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/public/投影片/活动课设计/穿越情感的风暴设计思路.doc"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">穿越</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">情感的风暴</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN><A href="file:///D:/教学录像/小学/小六%20走近父母.wmv"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">走近父母</SPAN><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">54</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">00</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如果团体运作顺畅，则思路清晰合理往往是首要原因。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN><A href="file:///D:/教学录像/初中/初一%20我喜欢.wmv"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">我喜欢</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">四、如何操作？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">www.animationfactory.com</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（一）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">条操作原则</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、</SPAN><SPAN><A href="file:///D:/教学录像/小学/小五%20多变的情绪.wmv"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">动感第一</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、情境体验；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、多元互动；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、现场生成；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、主体抉择；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、和谐有序。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（二）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">条操作要领</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重感受，不重认知；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重引导，不重教导；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重目标，不重手段；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重口头交流，不重书面活动；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重真话，不重有无错话；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重氛围，不重理性探讨的完美；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重应变，不重原定设计；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重自我升华，不重教师概括总结。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（三）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">项操作技巧</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、专注技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、倾听技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、重述技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、具体化技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、引导技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、同感技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、支持技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、面质技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;9</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、保护技术；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;10</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、自我开放技术。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="file:///D:/教学录像/小学/小二%20学会赞扬.wmv"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学会赞扬</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">五、如何评价？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（一）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">条评课标准</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、辅导理念基本正确；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、活动设计思路清晰；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、活动过程氛围和谐；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、辅导技巧运用得当；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、辅导效果比较明显。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（二）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">条评课方法</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、不论成败，只讲得失；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、抓大放小，突出重点；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、多元互动，集思广益；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、注重过程，再观后效；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、求同存异，各取所需。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="file:///D:/教学录像/小学/小四%20赢得更多的朋友.wmv"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">赢得更多的朋友</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">只有大家都抛却功利心和功利标准，我们才能放平心态，才能敞开心扉、无所顾忌地畅所欲言，才能不讲套话、假话，只讲实实在在的真话。而辅导教师真正的成长就是从</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">讲真话</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">开始的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">六、有何困惑？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、心理辅导课与思品课有何区别？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）课程功能不同。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）课程内容不同。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）思品课更注重主流社会的价值标准，思品课教师不能保持价值中立。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）思品课也在学心理辅导课的技巧，但心理辅导课的技巧性要求更高一些。（谁</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">像谁？）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）思品课允许有更多的灌输色彩，课程</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">性质决定了学生可能掩盖内心的真实想法，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">可能缺少安全感。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学校里搞心理健康教育，在注意到德育和心育各有其内在规律、不能混为一谈的同时，也没有必要非得把心育和德育这两件事搞得</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">泾渭分明</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。我们不是说可以不顾两者的区别，也不是不主张要提高心理辅导活动课的专业化水平；而是说，在中小学现实教育环境中，要接纳心育和德育的内容、形式都有交叉这一事实。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、心理辅导课与主题班会课有何区别？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）可以采用同样的团体活动载体，但承载的内容不同；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）教师角色不同：权威？导演？朋友？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）学生心态不同：有防卫？无防卫？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）价值判断标准不同：主流？非主流？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）技术含量不同，训导？自觉地运用团体动力学原理和各种辅导技巧？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、心理辅导课与小组团体辅导有何区别？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）团体人数不同：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">8-12</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">50-60</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">团体成员的组合结构不同</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：可筛选？不可筛选？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">团体原有的基础不同</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：新？旧？短程？长程？凝聚力高？一盘散沙？相互信任？关系错综复杂？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）时空条件不同：受限？不受限？有弹性？无弹性？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">辅导教师关注的焦点不同</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">：每个成员态度行为的改变？全体成团共同的发展性主题？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">总之，作为</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小团体</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的小组团体辅导与作为</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">大团体</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的心理辅导活动课有着各自不同的性质、特点、功能、对象和内在运作规律。我们可以借鉴、但不能完全采用小组团体辅导的模式与规律去实施班级心理辅导活动课；反之亦然。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、心理辅导课与</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">实话实说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">节目有何区别？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）内容不同：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">社会热点焦点？成长发展？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）成员组成不同：三教九流？同龄人？旁观者讨论？深入内心的分享？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）交流渠道不同：主持人</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">嘉宾？同龄人</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">同龄人？单向？横向？多向？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主持人的角色</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">不同：中心人物、明星？配角、辅助者？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）氛围不同：幽默、调侃？真诚、理解？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、如何看待心理辅导课的游戏化倾向？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">所有的游戏一开始都是新鲜的，但所有的游戏用滥了之后都是令人生厌的。学校心理辅导课活动素材的不竭源泉蕴藏于学生鲜活的生命活动之中。我们必须深入到学生的班级中，去感受班级团体日常运作规律的原生态，去了解学生班级生活、宿舍生活、课外生活中的生命故事，方可挖掘和提炼出有声有色有创意的心理辅导课的活动素材。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、心理辅导课到底谁来上？班额太大怎么上？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">许多精彩的、感人至深的心理辅导活动课，往往是那些与学生整日厮守在一起的优秀班主任的杰作。对于兼任心理辅导活动课的班主任来说，对学生抱有充分的尊重、理解、真诚、接纳、支持、鼓励、关爱等等基本的辅导态度，比他掌握较多的辅导理论与辅导技巧紧迫得多、重要得多。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/public/投影片/（傅之敏）在心理辅导过程中领悟教育的真谛.doc"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">在心理辅导过程中领悟教育的真谛</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">那么出现</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">角色冲突</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">怎么办？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导活动课要求教师以辅导者身份出现，而不是以班主任身份出现，这里难免有角色冲突。处理办法只有两条：一是认真学习辅导理念和技巧，把班主任当得尽可能人性化一些，使两种角色尽可能靠近一些；二是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">到什么山上唱什么歌</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">，在不同的场合履行不同的职责。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一个学校的心理健康教育工作如果仅仅停留在做</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">宣传</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、搞</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">讲座</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、开设</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导室</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、建立</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理信箱</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">或</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理热线</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">等工作层面上，而不去下气力发动全体班主任积极参与、认真实施心理辅导活动课，那么，即使表面的形式搞得十分花哨，我们也可以认为这个学校的心理健康教育局面尚未真正突破</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">瓶颈</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">大班额本身是违背教育规律的，是应试教育背景下产生的异化了的班级组织形态。超过</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">60</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人的班级团体，辅导是有难度的。解决的办法只有请辅导教师与班主任配合，将</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">超大团体</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一分为二。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">7</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、学科教材中的心理教育内容可以替代心理辅导课吗？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）它是认知性的；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）它是灌输式的；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）它是强制性的；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）它是真正</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学科化</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）它是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">真经</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">，但要看在什么地方念，由</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">什么样的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">和尚</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">来念。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、有的老师上心理辅导课</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">屡战屡败</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">是何原因？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">辅导教师们在实施心理辅导活动课中，遇到的挫败体验，其主要根源不在于我们自己的素质适合不适合做这项工作，而在于我们在这一领域内的实践经验的积累，还没有达到一定的量限。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">只要是课堂，就需要课堂管理；而课堂管理是要有能力和技巧的。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">从这个意义上说，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导教师</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">首先是一个</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">教师</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">。在学校里做心理辅导教师，首先要过好</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">教师关</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">，然后才可能当好一个</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">会上心理辅导课</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的心理辅导教师。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如果辅导教师事先没有明确的辅导动机，没有一种通过自己设计的辅导活动来解决班级多数成员在成长中遭遇的实际问题的强烈冲动，没有一种为某个活动环节的设计朝思暮想、茶饭不思、夜以继日、辗转反侧的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">着迷</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一般的深入探究，那么，在活动实施过程中出现磕磕绊绊、阻力重重、发展迟缓、气氛僵滞、彼此防范、关系疏离等不流畅的现象，就是毫不奇怪的了。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如果一个人真的能够从自己或顺利、或曲折、或成功、或失败的经历中去体验、去品味、去探索、去总结，而且总是怀抱一颗不灭的信念火种，不是去武断地否定新的事物，而是去不断地否定旧的自我，那么，随着生命历程的推进，我们的经验就会日趋丰富，我们的心灵就会得到成长，我们对客观事物的认识就会越来越接近于真实和深入。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">我想，对心理辅导活动课的探究也是如此。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心海扬帆</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">中小学心理辅导论坛</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">www.xhyf.net</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">elements</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">www.animationfactory.com</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:49:45 心理辅导活动课实施要务2-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10294 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">A<FONT face=宋体>学习习惯：包括在家里的学习习惯和学校里的学习习惯。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主要抓两条，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第一条，是按时按成作业，不拖拉。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">主要原因是：<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、没有时间概念，没有时间知觉，也是没有空间知觉；</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 84.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、孩子的注意力在十分钟之后，就会动动手。然而没有时间观念，导致不能及时控制自己；</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 84.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、这个时间&nbsp;家长过于严格的要求，没完没了的作业，使孩子形成拖拉的现象。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;第二条，是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">家长是不会自动学会的，教师应该做好教育家长、陪同家长和孩子形成良好的学习习惯。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学教师与其是不断说教，还不如对孩子进行强化式的行为习惯矫正的训练。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">行为矫正方法：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">强化——出现正向行为就进行强化，进行奖励，促使正向发展。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;惩罚——出现不良行为就给一个不愉快的情绪&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 21.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -115.5pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;消退——不去有意识地强化负面行为，给予忽略，从而使负面行为得不到反应。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">用强化理论培养孩子良好的学习习惯。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、评估，目的是为了确定目标行为。孩子到家后，家长可以问：今天有多少作业？让孩子说说要多少时间完成？比如说</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">45</FONT><FONT face=宋体>分钟。&nbsp;&nbsp;那么对孩子说：那么我给你一个小时的时间来完成作业。并告诉孩子：这十五分钟，是给你自己安排的。因为你这个年龄的孩子啊，都会动一动，你可以自己安排时间，但是要完成作业。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、把行为，说明游戏规则。&nbsp;&nbsp;每天会在你面前放一个闹钟，闹钟一响，就说明时间到了，你应该完成作业了。闹钟没响之前，爸爸妈妈不会管你的作业。闹钟一响，爸爸妈妈就会进来把你的作业收起来，直到你明天上学的时候给你。如果你没有完成作业，那也是你自己浪费时间。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、实施。最重要的让孩子在独立的空间里度过一个小时。这个时间段最应该避免妈妈的性急，一定要沉住气。如果没有完成，家长也不批评，不指责，就是将作业锁在抽屉里。并告诉孩子，你现在可以做你自己的事情了，比如吃零食阿，到外面玩啊。如果孩子哭啊，闹啊，家长一定要坚持住。等孩子睡觉以后，与教师取得联系。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">放学后，家长也不问，也要不动声色。第二天对待回家作业，采用“重复”性的过程。家长一定要做到冷静。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第二天，孩子基本上都会按时完成作业。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、表扬。孩子在规定时间内完成作业，所以要奖励你。而且还要向孩子说明：你今天能在规定时间内，所以可以得到红星星。如果一个星期内，你都可以做到，那么你可以得到一个大的红星星。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一般一个孩子的行为习惯，可以在两周内形成；再用两个星期的时间，基本上可以巩固；再用两个星期，基本上可以维持，但此时的奖励就应该淡化。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">每一个老师都应该记得，每天布置作业，都要告诉孩子，今天的作业是需要多长时间可以完成的。如果你没有在规定的时间内完成作业，那么后果自负。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">强化的细节要注意：&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、行为训练目标必须单一，不能同时出现两个以上的目标。如不可以既要求按时完成作业，又要求完全正确。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、强化必须及时，立刻表扬，决不可以拖延。这与延时满足时不一样的。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、强化物必须是孩子喜欢的。如一个月后，对孩子进行表扬，可以先问问家长，最近孩子喜欢什么？并让家长买好后送到学校，进行表扬。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、强化物必须是不容易得到的。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">培养孩子形成独立完成作业不依赖的习惯</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">有三个要求：孩子做作业，家长不陪同</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;写完作业后，家长不看对错</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;写完后，家长不给签字。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">方&nbsp;&nbsp;法：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、评估。这么多作业，需要多少时间完成？家长说：昨天给你一个小时，今天给你多十五分钟，让你检查自己的作业对错。&nbsp;闹钟规则是一样的，我们也不看对错，也不签字。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、当孩子完成作业，看到孩子还有错的作业的时候。家长要做到：不动声色。问：你检查过了吗？&nbsp;&nbsp;接下来你让孩子写：今天作业已经检查五次，签字：（孩子姓名）。孩子会提出，要家长签字。家长就告诉孩子：谁的作业谁负责。之后再与教师取得联系，进行交流。&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;孩子回到家里后，做到不问，继续评估，继续训练。孩子完成作业后，继续采用前一天的态度，即使孩子已经是完全正确，也要继续不动声色。让孩子签字。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、第二天孩子回家后立刻强化，进行表扬，进行物质奖励。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">代币制&nbsp;&nbsp;物质奖励&nbsp;&nbsp;非物质奖励&nbsp;&nbsp;社会奖励</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">生活习惯：自己的事情自己做</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学校里需要的两个最重要的习惯：举手的习惯</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、培养举手的习惯：到了四五年级，举手少了，到了六年级，很少举手了，到了初中，几乎就不举手了。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">每个孩子举手之前的担心：会不会讲错？他内心的担心往往决定他的举手。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、方法</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">要保证为孩子创造一个举手的安全环境。不会因为答案错误而挫伤孩子的上进心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、感觉统合能力培养的最后敏感期。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">包括视觉、听觉、味觉、内心感觉等统合起来的感觉称为感觉统合能力。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">感统不良的后果是使阅读障碍、实验操作障碍等等，很多就是对学习的障碍。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; BACKGROUND: rgb(0,255,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'; mso-highlight: rgb(0,255,255)">培养感统能力最好的方法就是游戏！而且，应该是民间的传统游戏，如抓子、跳绳、走平衡木、荡秋千、翻跟斗、跳鞍马、弹玻璃球、玩陀螺、踩高跷、轮滑。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">千万记住，<FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁，是一个非敏感期。所以一定要在</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以前进行好好地培养。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学中段发展性主题（<FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT><FONT face=宋体>年级）</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、智力发展的第二个高峰期；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、发展人际交往能力的关键期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、智力发展的第二个高峰期</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学一二年级着重训练学生的观察和注意力。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">思维能力、想象能力，在三四年级，是发展的高峰期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">智力的核心是思维，思维的核心是概括。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">思维具有灵活性、逆向性。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">三四年级就可以开设心理辅导课、思维训练课、脑筋急转弯智力游戏活动</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个阶段的老师素质要非常好。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、发展人际交往能力的关键期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;人际交往受到障碍的话，首先是情绪障碍，接下来就导致注意力障碍，最终就是导致学习障碍。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">美国心理教学学家沙利文：一个个体在小学阶段，没有学会和同性别交往，在初中阶段，没有学会和异性交往，那么这个个体将在<FONT face="Times New Roman">20</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁后，形成人格障碍，变成自恋性人格。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">女孩子在一起，怎么做到不传闲话，就是人际交往中的一个可以训练的内容。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">人际交往能力，关系到一个人的整体发展。对这个阶段的孩子而言，家长就要引起重视。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学高段发展性主题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、个性发展的关键期，是培养作人的重要时期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、中小衔接的关键期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、个性发展的关键期；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">个性，粗线条的说，可以说成是性格。准确的说，个性与人格划等号。个性在<FONT face="Times New Roman">18</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁定格，</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">18</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以前是个性，</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">18</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以后就是人格。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">个性是指一个人比较稳定的心理性向性和比较稳定的行为模式。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">五年级的孩子就应该有一个稳定的兴趣指向。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导课：引导学生学会做人，引导学生形成理想、习惯、志向、兴趣等形成多方位良好的心理品德。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、中小衔接的关键期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个阶段是人的归类记忆的出现。这是一个非凡的记忆。主要是五六年级呈现的一种能力。这种归类能力对知识信息进行加工、整理、概括、规范、提炼、分表画图、压缩信息，然后脑子里搭起框架结构，形成知识网络。这种归类知识的能力，决定孩子到初中后能不能承受知识量大量增加的能力。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这离不开三四年级时的思维能力的发展，所以在五六年级时会形成归类加工思维的能力。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">所以心理辅导课，告诉孩子，学习巧记的方法，如何进行谐音记忆、归类记忆、形象记忆等。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">概括的说</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学低段，关键是孩子学习和行为习惯养成的重要时期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学中段，关键是孩子有没有学习成功的体验。&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学高段，关键是个性问题。如果一个人受到大家的喜欢，那么对个人的发展而言就呈良性趋势，这样的孩子上进心就会很强。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">埃里克森认为：一个人的自我概念，就好像是一个六面体。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第一对矛盾，<FONT face="Times New Roman">A</FONT><FONT face=宋体>面可以当成是个人对自我的概念。进入青春期的孩子，往往是自我感觉好极了。对面的</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">B</FONT><FONT face=宋体>面，是客体自我，就是别人对自我的评价。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第二对矛盾，<FONT face="Times New Roman">C</FONT><FONT face=宋体>是过去的自我，以前是很光辉；对面的</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">D</FONT><FONT face=宋体>面是现在的自我。这样的对比，就会形成自我迷失。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">第三对矛盾，<FONT face="Times New Roman">E</FONT><FONT face=宋体>是理想的自我，将来是怎么样的；</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">F</FONT><FONT face=宋体>是真实的自我。如果一个人理想自我很高，现实自我很小，又会形成很大的落差。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">进入青春期以后，不管个人的个性形式是怎么样的，不管问题行为的表现形式是什么，其根源都是自我概念的表现混乱。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">个体发展的第四阶段（小学教育阶段）学生的内心积极体验极为重要。无数事实说明：青年阶段（中学教育阶段）学生出现的种种不正常现象，从根本上来说，都源于个体没有度过一个真正成熟的少年阶段。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">初一年级发展性主题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、要关注初一学生入学后的入学适应性问题。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、要关注由于自我中心意识迅速发展引起的人际关系问题。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）要注意协调学生的人际关系（女生应对</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">传闲话</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的技巧，男生的化解矛盾的技巧）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）要预防打群架、</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">单挑</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">等引发的校园危机事件。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">初二年级发展性主题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、学业分化问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">引发</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">三个逃避</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 53.235pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;逃避到情感世界&nbsp;&nbsp;逃避到虚拟世界中&nbsp;&nbsp;逃避到社会同类团伙中</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、青春期恋情问题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">初三年级发展性主题</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、学习压力和学习挫折</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:48:58 心理辅导活动课实施要务1-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10293 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导活动课实施要务</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: right"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理健康教育特级教师&nbsp;&nbsp;钟志农</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: right"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">邮箱：</SPAN><SPAN><A href="mailto:zhongzn@xhyf.com"><SPAN class=16 style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; TEXT-DECORATION: underline; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">zhongzn@xhyf.com</SPAN></A></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; 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MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一、为什么开课？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理辅导活动课需要很强的针对性，需要很强的创造精神，需要很鲜明的层次感（不同学段不同要求）和连续性（波浪式前进与螺旋式上升）；心理辅导活动课不能无病呻吟，不能邯郸学步，不能没有个性。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（一）从埃克里森“心理社会期”理论中寻找依据</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、为了为学生的发展——发展什么？怎么促进发展？</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、为了预防学生出现心理不适应问题、心理困惑、心理危机——可能会出现什么心理不适应问题、心理困惑、心理危机？怎么才能抢先一步，真正做到有效预防？</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">脑子里应该有一个路线图：要知道教育对象从哪里来，他现在处在人生道路上的哪一点？他又要往哪里去？无论是从教师的角度，还是从为人父母的角度考虑。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 42.98pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">埃克里森&nbsp;“心理社会期”&nbsp;人生八段论&nbsp;理论</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <TABLE style="PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-COLLAPSE: collapse; mso-table-layout-alt: fixed"> <TBODY> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">期别</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">年龄</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">心理危机</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">发展顺利</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">发展障碍</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">0<FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">信任—不信任</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">有安全感</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">交往焦虑</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'">2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">自主—不自主</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">自控自信</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">胆小多疑</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'">3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">自信—不信任</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">勇于表现</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">畏惧退缩</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6<FONT face=宋体>—青春期</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">进取—不进去</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">有能力</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">失败无能</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 59.4pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=79> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'">5</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 81pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=108> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">青春期</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 99pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=132> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">统合—不统合</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">方向明确</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WIDTH: 85.25pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: none; mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=113> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">角色混乱</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(204,153,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR> <TR> <TD style="BORDER-RIGHT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5.4pt; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 5.4pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; WIDTH: 409.9pt; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; BORDER-BOTTOM: rgb(0,0,0) 0.5pt solid; mso-border-left-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-right-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-top-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0); mso-border-bottom-alt: 0.5000pt solid rgb(0,0,0)" vAlign=center width=546 colSpan=5> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6<FONT face=宋体>……</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">7</FONT><FONT face=宋体>……</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">8</FONT><FONT face=宋体>……</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例&nbsp;&nbsp;子：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一个婴孩在哭泣，作为家长就应该思考：孩子是为什么原因哭泣？是因为饿？热？睡觉？想要拥抱？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一个细心的母亲应该从孩子的哭声中了解孩子的需要，并满足孩子的需要，并同时进行情感的交流。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">母子是共生关系，<FONT face="Times New Roman">0</FONT><FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁是一段最重要的共生关系。因为孩子在胎里已经与母亲共生了十个月。所以出生以后，孩子需要母亲的温柔：语言、非语言如肢体抚摸，使孩子感受到孩子与母亲的共生，才会产生信赖感。这是人的本能。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">在这个阶段，一定要体察孩子的需要，满足孩子的需要，并进行情感上的交流。母子关系的建立，就是人建立人际关系的模版。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">从孩子的<FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT><FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">12</FONT><FONT face=宋体>月，就可以看人生：孩子与母亲建立依赖感，就会表现出对社会的情感、对其他人的情感。母子每周接触孩子的时间如果少于</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">20</FONT><FONT face=宋体>个小时，孩子</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">20</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以后就会出现人格问题。交流的时间每天不能少于三个小时。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">3</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">是孩子自主人格形成的关键时期。这个阶段的孩子天性是自主、探索。比如看到一个杯子，孩子会保持探索心理去了解。如果一个杯子旁边放着笔记本，那么可以肯定会湿掉。如果母亲是：告诉你不要动，你还动。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这是过度干预；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">奶奶看到说：干什么说孩子，他懂什么，是你自己不对。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这就是过度保护。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">西方文化，在孩子年龄小时，非常注重人的发展，注重性格培养。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例&nbsp;&nbsp;子：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">慕尼黑大学做访问学者，两年后回来提起，每天晚上吃完饭之后，许多德国的家长带着蹒跚学步的孩子，每个孩子的腰带上会有一条约两米长的布绳，另一头握在母亲的手里。当孩子摔倒的时候，母亲就拉拉绳子，对孩子说：“宝贝，起来；宝贝，起来。”如果孩子乖，就站起来了；如果孩子不乖，三四次之后还不起来，母亲就转身与孩子父亲交流，不理孩子。当孩子发现之后，只能自己站起来。父母发现后就会跑过来，大张旗鼓地表扬孩子：有骑士精神&nbsp;有勇敢的潜质&nbsp;。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>—</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁，</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">是智力发展高峰时期，特别是<FONT face="Times New Roman">4</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以前。这段时间可以完成一生之中智力发展的</FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">50%</FONT><FONT face=宋体>。注意力、观察力、想象力、思维能力、言语能力、记忆能力、动手操作能力、感觉能力</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个年龄段的孩子是自我中心意识发展的高峰期，是自信发展最强的时期。但是这个年龄，既是自信的极度发展，又是任性的极度发展期。在幼儿园的教育中，当教师过渡地抑制任性，会形成反效果；当教师过渡地培养自信，也会使孩子形成负面影响。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,102,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个时段，不可以即刻满足。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如果时常即刻满足孩子，那么孩子的任性期就强于自信的发展。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">例子：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">孩子最容易在客人面前表现“人来疯”。唱歌唱了又唱，不听话。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 21.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -63pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">怎么做：<FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT><FONT face=宋体>、与孩子进行商量，今天客人来，高兴吗？是不是想演节目？那好，爸爸妈妈和你一起排练好不好？</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 63.735pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、进行排练&nbsp;</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 63.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3<FONT face=宋体>、预祝你圆满成功。你们幼儿园演节目是不是有个节目单？我们今天晚上的节目是：第一个，父母与客人谈话；第二个节目，是你的表演。你就呆在后台。后台就是你的房间，你的门就是你的幕布。你在后台等待。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN: 0pt 21pt 0pt 63.735pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4<FONT face=宋体>、请孩子给尊贵的客人进行表演。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 31.5pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这就完成了孩子控制自我、展现能力的过程。在规则中约束孩子，但也是在规则中表现自我。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">6<FONT face=宋体>—青春期&nbsp;&nbsp;小学教育阶段</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个阶段应该解决的是孩子的进取心的问题。上进或不上进，是这个阶段的重要时期。小学阶段，名次的高低都是次要的，关键是孩子有没有持久的进取心，有没有朝气蓬勃、昂扬的进取心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">所有的孩子，进入小学一年级，都是上进的。举手，手举得特高，有时甚至要跑到老师面前举手。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">但是到四年级的时候，有的孩子的脸上已经是神采黯淡，学习无兴致，有的孩子是无可奈何。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(255,0,0); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">成长不只是需要书，还需要阳光、运动、对着植物发呆，还需要休息，需要睡觉。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">小学低段发展性主题：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、入学适应性问题；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、培养良好行为习惯的关键期；</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">、感觉统合能力培养的最后敏感期。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1<FONT face=宋体>、入学适应性问题；</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;如果不适应，就会导致教师对孩子形成不良的评价。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;适应不良的后果是挫伤孩子的上进心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">如何改善：通过游戏，通过活动，使孩子慢慢地进行适应。并可以带着孩子在校园里走一走，让孩子知道什么时候该干什么，什么时候可以干什么。这个过程就需要教师保有很大耐心。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">老师很重要的态度就是要包容孩子，要有极大的信任度。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2<FONT face=宋体>、培养良好行为习惯的关键期；</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: rgb(0,0,255); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">这个阶段是培养好习惯和改正坏习惯的最佳时期。<FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT><FONT face=宋体>岁以前有坏习惯不怕，因为在小学阶段，如果碰到好教师，那么是完全可以改变的。一年级的教师要充分珍惜个人自我形象的教育。</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 21pt"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">怎么培养良好的学习习惯、生活习惯、行为习惯？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-8 8:43:56 与太阳同行——谨以此诗与学体圈的同行们共勉-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10292 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""><P align=center><STRONG><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>与太阳同行——谨以此诗与学体圈的同行们共勉</FONT></STRONG></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们都是一群有天赋的人。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>就在某次与小伙伴的追逐打闹中</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>或在某次特别小型的运动会上，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们被一双“慧眼”发现，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>从此，便与体育结下了一生的情缘。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>最初，是极为兴奋且颇感荣耀的，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们的每次奔跑都能赢得无数的围观与惊叹。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>在荣光的背后，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们日复一日，不分昼夜，忘了寒暑，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>迈着年少的步伐，洒着青春的汗水，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>誓言：要征服这漫漫跑道，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>向着冠军，冲刺，冲刺！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>真正是豪情万丈、豪气冲天啊。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>那样一段有别于同龄人的岁月，</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>注定，在我们的血脉里</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>沉淀！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>倏忽间</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>长大后，我就成了你。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>一样的操场，一样的日光</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>顶着风沙，向着烈日</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>手把手，招招式式，渴望着言传又身教。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>请原谅</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们偶尔有了些茫然，更有些彷徨。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>调皮的孩子啊</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>你有时令我们束手无策，有时又令我们感慨满怀；</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>残酷的现实啊</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>你有时把口号高高喊响，有时又冷漠地将我们弃之一旁。</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>向左还是向右</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>妥协还是奋起</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们就像夹缝中的一株小草</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>即便缺少阳光雨露</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>依然努力向往天空生长、生长！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>一如心底的愿望从不轻易消亡！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>从愿望</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们望到了从前的自己</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>书到用时方恨少</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>学到用时方觉浅啊</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>一股韧劲又从血液里喷涌而出！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>悄悄地</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们拿起书本</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>在这个不见汗水，缺少注视，略显冷清的赛场上</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们寻见了另一方澄净的天空，渐次开朗！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>沉沉夜色中</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>拿出笔记</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>面对屏幕</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>揉揉有些发沉的大脑</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>敲打出一行又一行</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>请别笑我稚嫩，更别笑我痴傻</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们从来都知道</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>人生就是一次长跑</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>即便起跑慢了</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>也要勇敢地追赶，甚至是超越！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>超越对手</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>更在超越自我，创造自我！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>谁说我们头脑简单、四肢发达</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>谁说我们只会苦干、蛮干，不会巧说、巧干</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>一篇篇日志</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>记录我们奋力成长的决心与喜悦</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>一句句留言</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>见证我们携手共进的勇气与温暖</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>与太阳同行</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>心头的炽热化作无穷的力量，从不停歇！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>与太阳同行</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>心底的无私引来众多的喝彩，从不孤单！</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>在路上，在路上！</FONT></P> <P align=left><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>我们一直向着阳光！</FONT></P> <P align=left><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4></FONT>&nbsp;</P> <P align=left><FONT color=#ffa500 size=4>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 后记：加入学体圈近半年，许多同行的认真、努力以及卓越的成就给了我很大的刺激。人是需要一些精神的——这在我们体育圈里尤为明显。这首算不上诗的小文，乃自己的涂鸦之作，笑纳了，但的确因情而发，谨与同行们共勉。祝大家在新的学年里越加充实越多快乐。祝学体圈里越多温暖越多精彩</FONT>！</P><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-7 10:03:04 【原创】开学第一课-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10291 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 3.75pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">【原创】开学第一课</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 15pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">长达两个月的暑期生活终于结束了！今年我授课的年级是六年级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">4</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">个班、三年级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2个班，总课时16节课。从收到课程表的9月3日开始，我都琢磨着今年的课时安排。还好，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">是</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">到今天为止，全部结束了所有任教班级的始业教学，总体感觉不错。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">非常认真的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">总结了上学期</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">孩子课堂中</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的优缺点，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">并</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">明确本学期的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">学习</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">目标和要求，孩子听了也很开心。我也记载一下上课的内容。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一、总结上学期的教学情况：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">上学期，我们第一次通过区里的教学质量检测。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">以技能教学为主，通过了努力，孩子们在上个学期的期末统考中（</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">原地运球</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">+立定跳远</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">）获得了区</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">优异</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">的好成绩，这个成绩，是通过老师和同学们共同努力也取得的。所以，老师认为，没有做不到的事情，只要认真努力去学习，一定会得到好成绩。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">二、本学期的目标和要求：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（一)本学期以体能（400米、实心球、跳绳）教学为主，制定一下目标：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1.400米：毅力——9月：1’40以内&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;10月：1’35以内</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2.跳绳：恒心——要求所有的同学都达到100分。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3.实心球：下功夫——9月：男生—8米以上&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;女生—6.5米以上&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;10月：男生—9米以上&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;女生—7米以上</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">（二）要求：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">1.&nbsp;课前：1）服装、鞋子：舒适、不穿凉鞋和裙子</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2）排队：静、齐、快，提前到操场等老师上课</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3）离开教室：关电源、理桌面、放凳子</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">2.课中：1）学会倾听——怎么听？听老师，听同伴，是一种尊重</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2）会用器材——什么时候用？器材怎么用？怎么样听信号用？（运用上厕所不擦屁股的比喻来形容拿器材不还器材，让孩子们哄堂大笑，并记在心里）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3）安全第一——上下楼梯的安全，活动中的安全，携带东西的安全。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">3.课后：1）不许喝大量水</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;2）不许冲头洗脸</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;3）不许马上坐下来休息（运用汽车在高速公路上突然踩刹车会发生的事故，来形容运动后马上坐下来的危害，让孩子明确这种不良习惯）</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0pt; MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; PADDING-LEFT: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; PADDING-TOP: 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;希望本学期在大家的努力，在体质测试中取得好成绩！</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: rgb(70,70,70); FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-7 9:47:59 重要的是养成良好习惯-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10290 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"> <DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">重要的是养成良好习惯</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 16pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">[题记]：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '华文行楷'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">孩子成功教育从好习惯培养开始&nbsp;——巴金</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '华文行楷'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '华文行楷'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">晨，在二楼用早餐，耳边传来了姐姐一遍一遍教孙子读儿歌的声音。好奇，下楼，询问之原因。姐这才告诉我，要开学了，让孙子把原来的儿歌再背一背，可这孩子，两个多月没读，竟然忘得一干二净。于是，我说，你这样教没用，重要的是培养他自觉学习的好习惯。如果孩子没有学习的欲望，即使你如何雕琢，学过的东西过后就会被抛到九霄云外。尽管爱玩是孩子的天性，但你可以利用晚上时间，引导温故而知新，坚持这样做，读书习惯养成了，你不督促，他也会自觉拿起书来读。这时，一位邻居走来，问我，她的女儿这学期上一年级了，该买些什么辅导材料让孩子做。我笑了，说：“才一年级，买什么辅导材料。一年级学生，相对而言，智力与能力基本上都在同一起跑线上，除非家庭文化素养非常好的孩子，孩子得到见识与能力会略高点。一年级，重要的还是好好培养孩子学习的一切良好习惯。例如，课堂安下心来认真听老师讲课，积极发言。千万不可在课堂玩橡皮擦，铅笔等等，或者东张西望。这一点非常重要。因为，幼儿园一节课20多分钟，玩中学习，一下过渡到一年级一节课40分钟，孩子们一般都不习惯，更难以集中精力学习。你要教导孩子，学会在课堂倾听，思考，并让她每天回家讲讲课堂学到的知识。除此之外，生活起居习惯，独立自主习惯，做作业习惯，整理学习用品习惯，预习习惯，面对困难解决的习惯，思维习惯等都要进行培养。这些学习良好习惯养成了，学习自然没问题。”这邻居听我一说，嘴张成个O形。我告诉她，别那么惊讶，我说的是实在话。你说，现在有多好孩子做作业不专心，一块橡皮擦可以玩，就手中的铅笔可以玩，甚至坐不住，一会说喝水，一会儿说上厕所。听到外边伙伴们嬉戏声，立刻起身朝外看。简单的几道题目，一作就大半天，你说，这样能学习好？这样的话，即使你给他几本练习册练习，知识，最终也是落水的桃花顺水漂。听我说完之后，邻居点了点头。其实，习惯是养成教育的产物，它往往起源于看似不经意的小事，却蕴含了足以改变人类命运的巨大能量。好习惯常常让人受益终生，坏习惯往往使人深陷泥潭。作为一年级的老师，开学的第一堂课，第一学期，乃至第一年，除了传授知识，重要的还是培养学生良好的课前学习准备习惯，课内倾听与思考习惯，课后做好作业的习惯以及在校内的一切良好行为习惯。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">是啊，生活如水，如花，如雨，如棋，&nbsp;如茶……面对生活的多彩，我们选择了人生，而人生路漫，我们学会认识，学会辨别，学会学习，学会联想，学会咀嚼，学会欣赏，学会做人，学会品评，重要的还是学会养成良好的习惯。习惯是人生的主宰，人们就应当努力求得好的习惯。习惯如果是在幼年就起始的，那就是最完美的习惯，这是一定的，这个我们叫做教育。教育其实是一种从早年就起始的习惯。我国伟大的教育家叶圣陶说：“教育是什么？往简单方面说，只须一句话，就是培养良好的学习习惯的。”美国教育家赫尔认为：“习惯不形成，学习等于零。”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">在《成长的智慧》一书中，有一则故事讲到诚实的习惯能带给人幸运，大意如下：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">一位非常富有但脾气古怪的老绅士想找一个男孩服侍他的饮食起居，帮他做事，唯一的要求就是这个年轻人必须诚实正直。他常说：“向抽屉里偷看的孩子会试图从里面取出点东西，而在年轻时就偷窃过一分钱的人，长大后总有一天会偷窃一元钱。”很快，老绅士就收到20多封求职信。他决定对这些孩子进行考核，四个精干的小伙子来参加最后的面试。绅士提前准备了一间房子，要求四个人逐一进去，只要在里面的椅子上安静坐一会儿就行。第一个孩子看见桌子上摆放着一个罩子，很好奇，他掀起了罩子，里面的羽毛被气流吹得满房间都是。第二个孩子一进去就被一盘诱人的、熟透的樱桃吸引了，还拿了一个最大的放进嘴里，可是里面全是辣椒。第三个呢，看到桌子上有个抽屉没有锁，就想拉开那个抽屉，结果刚把手放在抽屉把手上，就响起一阵铃声……前三个孩子都被赶了出去。只有最后进入房间的男孩哈里在房间的椅子上静静地坐了20分钟，什么也没有动。半个小时后，老绅士满意地告诉他被录取了。老绅士问他：“屋里那么多新奇的东西，难道你不想动一下吗？”哈里回答说：“不，先生。在没有得到允许之前我是不会动的。”&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '楷体_GB2312'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">后来，哈里一直服侍老绅士，老人去世时留给他很大一笔遗产，他一直过着充实富裕的生活。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">无论这个故事真实与否，都说明了一个重要的道理：好的习惯能改变我们的人生。一旦养成，便可终身受益。因此，面对一年级的孩子，重要的还是养成良好的学习与生活习惯。有了良好习惯，在关键时，会给予你惊喜与好运气！</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><!--EndFragment-->&nbsp;</SPAN></P></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-7 9:30:12 培养孩子的自信比智商重要-黄育慈 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10289 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""> <BODY style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-TOP: 0px; SCROLLBAR-FACE-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-HIGHLIGHT-COLOR: #808080; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; SCROLLBAR-SHADOW-COLOR: #808080; SCROLLBAR-3DLIGHT-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-ARROW-COLOR: #000000; SCROLLBAR-TRACK-COLOR: #d4d0c8; BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; SCROLLBAR-DARKSHADOW-COLOR: #d4d0c8; SCROLLBAR-BASE-COLOR: #d4d0c8"><DIV class=Section0 style="LAYOUT-GRID: 15.6pt none"> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: center"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">培养孩子的自信比智商重要</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: '黑体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold; FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p><FONT color=#ffa500></FONT></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">&nbsp;在北京有一所大医院，它的一个诊疗室是经过国家评定可以测查智商的机构。在诊室外的长凳上，经常有家长带着孩子排队测智商，其中有不少家长是从外地千里迢迢带孩子来测查的。而测查的结果，绝大多数结论是“智商正常”。有些地区的教育研究机构大规模地给本地区的学生测查智商（他们多数没有测查资格）。为什么近些年人们这样热衷于智商问题呢？我认为跟人们的如下认识误区有关：高智商就是聪明，聪明就会学习好，学习好就能上重点学校考上大学，将来就是人才。不容讳言，人的智力水平，与他的成才有一定关系，智力是成才的基本条件之一。然而为什么许多小时候高智商的儿童长大以后平平庸庸呢？在前边关于非智力因素重要性的阐述中，我们举出了详实的例证。&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　　中国古代有一个《伤仲永》的故事，讲的是一个叫仲永的小孩，聪明过人，记忆力好，而且能当场做诗做文。他的父亲带着他到处表演，挣了不少钱。然而过了若干年后，这个孩子已经“泯然众人”了，成了一个平平庸庸的人。孩子的“智商”怎么不起作用了？</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　　现在有些家长的想法是，孩子查了智商，如果智商较高，就下大力气培养他上大学；如果智商一般或较低，就顺其自然，不费那么大力气。这是一种危险的有害的想法，不符合客观规律。在80年代以前，智力成才的观点曾经有一定的影响力，人们把智商看得过重。80年代以后，大量的研究证明，智力仅仅是成才的一个重要因素，而不是全部，关键因素在于非智力因素。90年代又有一个新的观念，就是认为情商（EQ）是人成才成功的最关键的因素。其实，情商与非智力因素是一致的。现在，有两种关于人的成功的说法，一个是：一个人的成功，20%靠智商，20%靠机遇，60%靠情商；另一个是：20%靠智商，80%靠情商。不管哪种说法，都不认为智商是决定因素。关于情商，我们在后文有简要介绍。在此，我再次重复我的观点：智力因素与非智力因素的协同开发是成才的基本规律。我相信来自民间的一首谚语所说的：人人有才，人无全才，教育得法，皆能成才。凡是智商在正常值内的孩子，科学施教，都能成为人才。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　　我们再来谈智商测查问题。目前，在中国使用的智力量表是从西方引进的，它们的科学性还在不断完善之中。而且，进行测查的人是否“持证上岗”，测查的结果是否可靠都值得注意。偌大的北京，仅有少数专家有测查智商的正式资格，而且结果仅供参考。专家研究告诉我们，在人群中，高智商者不过5%。低智商者不过3%，大部分人是智商正常。有一位教授的观点是符合实际的，他认为：“智力正常，个性成才。”这里的个性是指良好的心理品质，主要是非智力因素。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　　由此，我们想到家长常对孩子说而又不应该说的一句话：“你脑子笨。”类似的话还有：“你是榆木脑袋”，“你是猪脑子”，“你简直是傻子，谁都比你聪明”等等。家长的话往往是由于孩子不努力学习，心里生气说出来的，也有些家长，确实认为孩子的脑子不灵。我想规劝家长，一般孩子上了小学，经过努力能跟上班的，都是智力正常，不存在笨的问题。如果总说孩子笨，会给孩子造成心理定势：“我笨。”结果影响孩子的智力活动积极性，反而限制了智力的发展，学习也上去。聪明的家长不该这么做，应该对孩子多说鼓励性的话，调动孩子的积极性。比如：“你干得不错”，“虽然成绩不理想，你尽力了”，“你能做得更好”，“爸爸妈妈为你的进步骄傲”……</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><FONT color=#ffa500><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: '宋体'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'">　　无数事实告诉我们，孩子有自信比什么都重要。而孩子的自信，特别需要家长悉心保护，认真培养。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 200%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=p0 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0pt; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: justify"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-spacerun: 'yes'"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV><!--EndFragment--></BODY><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-7 8:25:24 终于可以上来闲聊了-王国平 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10288 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""><P>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #7fffd4" size=6> 终于可以上来闲聊了</FONT></P> <P>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<FONT color=#000000 size=6>两个月的暑假都不曾上来，原因是在家根本上不了博客。开学了，大家又要忙开了，在学校也可以上来闲聊几句。</FONT></P><BGSOUND src="" loop=""></BGSOUND></BODY> 2010-9-6 16:56:20 暑假过去，工作感受-江然爱 http://www.gxyx.net/rainbow/blog/teacher/templates/content.asp?Diary_ID=10287 <BODY background="" text="" vlink="" Link="" bgColor="" bgproperties=""><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 26pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体">暑假过去，工作感受</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 26pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-line-height-rule: exactly" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 黑体">郭溪镇第五小学<SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>江然爱<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 26pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">今年我又带一年级的数学。我工作已经有两年了。记得当年的我，初生牛犊不怕虎，校长让我带一年级的数学。我毫不犹豫地答应了。在答应的时候，校长告诉我：“这里的一年级学生特别调皮，他们什么都不懂，刚刚从幼儿园过来，习惯都没有，你这时候重点应该放在培养学生的习惯上。”我听见去，但是没有好好吸取这句话的精华。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 26pt; mso-line-height-rule: exactly; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体">当年的我，是一位精神充沛的年轻教师。每天带着笑容进入教室，基本每天笑哈哈对着我的学生们。后来我的学生在我面前就老三老四起来，一点都不怕我这位老师，我好后悔。我发现我跟学生走得太近了。意识到这个问题的严重性，慢慢改变自己的观念。老教师的经验真的要听，不听的话，吃亏是你自己。自从我发现我的学生不怕我，不尊重我的时候，开始严厉对待自己的学生。不是有这么一句话说：“严师出高徒。”时光飞逝，我的学生已经是三年级。<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate Year="2010" Month="9" Day="3" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False" w:st="on"><SPAN lang=EN-US>2010</SPAN>年<SPAN lang=EN-US>9</SPAN>月<SPAN lang=EN-US>3</SPAN>日</st1:chsdate>，两个月休闲的暑假过去了，我慢悠悠进入我自己的班级教室，感觉好安静，上课好舒服啊。看来，我两年的辛苦没有白费。哈哈，太开心了。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 26pt; mso-line-height-ru